| So many deaths... |
[May. 1st, 2012|08:52 am] |
Since July 2010 I have suffered so many losses in my family. Starting with my grandpa, followed by my cat Oreo, then 2 cats at my mom’s Nemo and Honey, then my dad, my cat Fuzzy and today my cat Luke. Yes, several were cats…but my cats are my family. I’m so sick of losses. Every time things start in an upward motion, someone dies.
Today, my oldest saw Luke hit by the car. She saw every gory, gruesome detail. My poor baby. Now, not only do I have to deal with his death. I have to try to make things okay for Trinnity. I don’t know how. She has suffered just as much as I have, then to experience this. I’m at a total loss for what to do and how to go on. |
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| Stupid People |
[Apr. 30th, 2012|12:31 pm] |
Reality is I don’t like most people. I don’t like them because of their stupidity even the most intelligent people are stupid. If you don’t have common sense, don’t even waste my time. If you sit and start to judge someone based upon your lack of knowledge and common sense then I really don’t want to hear about your life or anything about you – in fact, just go away.
As I get older my tolerance for people gets worse and worse either that or people are just getting stupider. Somedays I really wish I could just start pushing people off a cliff one by one. I get that I’m not perfect but come on people…the box you were brought up in isn’t all there is to life…And since you were brought up in a box…your parent’s should be shot for being shitty parents who didn’t let you experience life. |
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| Music |
[Apr. 24th, 2012|10:06 am] |
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Sitting back listening to my “Random Coolness” playlist and it brings me back to so many memories – memories from about 7th grade forward. Sitting around listening to Rancid…because you know how cool Rancid was in 7th grade! VNV Nation – oh the days in the Goth clubs and I was oh so tragic. It is amazing how music holds so many memories, more memories then nearly anything else. I’ve had a lot of really great memories. I’m so thankful for everything that I have gone through, done, and how I have lived. It may not be everyone’s first choice on how to live their life but so far it has been worth it. Maybe I would have made a few changes and made a few different decisions but I can’t change those now but I accept and I enjoy my life as it is…because…well it is pretty great. |
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| Facebook Status Updates |
[Apr. 23rd, 2012|08:44 am] |
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Most days when I read ‘friends’ status updates on Facebook – I want to push them off a cliff to shut them up. I don’t really care that preschool for you 3 year old starts in 30 mins EVERYDAY! Seriously – get a life. If you are going to update your status…Please make it worth reading. Additionally – please read your post in your head and hear how stupid you sound when you start talking about your “poor baby” being sick but you just took him out for ice cream….If your kid is sick…keep him home and let him rest…don’t go out for ice cream. |
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| Over a year |
[Apr. 20th, 2012|11:58 am] |
Over a year since my last post...I should start posting again...
Always so much to say or random thoughts that float in my head. |
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| 10,000 Steps |
[Feb. 4th, 2011|03:32 pm] |
10,000 Steps a Day...
That is alot of steps to take a day considering I have a desk job. Maybe I didn't sit at a desk all day it wouldn't be so hard. I walk up down 2 flights of stairs twice a day at work and I got up and down the stairs here at least 6 times a day....And still I always fall short like 3,000 steps.
My goal for February is to start taking at 10,000 steps a day so I can finally lose the last 10 pounds I want to.
Better get to walking around.... |
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| Going Back |
[Feb. 3rd, 2011|09:28 am] |
At 28, nearly 29....I shouldn't be going back to school...I should have by this point found the career I was going to stick with....and I really thought I did before my last job. I swore being a Family Law Paralegal and handling people's divorces was for me but now....I'm not so sure. I want more.
The people you run across in Family Law, mainly attorney's, are very shady. I have met a couple very honest and ethical attorneys....but that was only a few. I was proud of what I did as a paralegal. I enjoyed making a good change in people's lives and helping them through the rough patches. Maybe...after 7 years....this isn't for me.
I'm now taking the journey back to school for Computer Science....probably something I should have stuck with....back when I was 17.... I'm now 3 weeks into this semester and I already don't look forward to completing the work...reading is one thing...but to do assignments....I hated them in HS why should I like them now...
Maybe this would have been easier if I finished what I started YEARS AGO! |
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| (no subject) |
[May. 18th, 2010|01:41 pm] |
They say at 15 Years Old, that is when you start developing a sense of what relationships are and what they should be. (Thank you Dr. Drew) Future relationships and partners will all probably be similar to what you experienced as a 15 year old. - This is true for me.
13 Years ago, I couldn't have pictured my life without my boyfriend at the time. He was everything I could have ever wanted. Our imaginations led us to living happily ever after together but of course that didn't happen. We spent endless hours on the phone and internet. When I look back, our relationship was very much done via technology. He was a great boyfriend, more importantly a great friend. He had incredible patience, talent, and love. Of course it took me months after he was gone for me to realize what I lost. Even years after the fact I stilled dwelled upon him, always thinking What If.
It's funny now that I am finally grown up, I could never picture a life with him. We seem like such different people. He lives his own life and I check in on his life on occasion via the internet and it seems like his life is going in a good direction for him but I could never see my life taking the direction his is taking.
Regardless, I am thankful that I didn't start a history of bad relationships by making the important relationship at 15 be an awful one. |
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| Enjoying Lunch |
[Sep. 11th, 2009|12:38 pm] |
I enjoy being pregnant because it gives me a good reason to eat whatever I want....but it is also awful because if people start talking about food...I want what they are talking about....today's topic of food - burritos...so now here I sit eating a burito...something I don't normally eat...but I'm pregnant and I like eating.
I enjoy feeling Kayleigh wiggle around inside me. She wiggles alot but mostly when she hears Kevin's voice. It is like she gets excited when he is around - probably because he is going to be the most awesome daddy ever.
I'm really excited about when she is born. I want her out and not because I am tired of being pregnant - cause I am not...but because I want to touch her, to hold her, and to enjoy her.
A little over 3 months to go.... |
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| Placenta Previa |
[Aug. 11th, 2009|04:26 pm] |
So yesterday at my doctors appointment I was told I had Placenta Previa. I'm no longer allowed to lift things and I should really restrict my physical activity because there is a strong chance that my placenta can tear and if that happens I can be put on bed rest or if it is really bad they would have to do an immediate c-section regardless of how far along I am. There is a small chance that it can correct itself and I won't have a c-section but I am not counting on it. More then likely I will be having a c-section at 37 weeks...that lands me right around December 1. It isn't the most pleasing news considering I now have alot of restrictions on my life and I really need to watch things for my safety as well as the babies.
Thank goodness I have the most amazing and supportive boyfriend in the world. |
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